relationship

10 People Share The More Adorable Proposals

Every girl has a dream about how her guy has to propose her. We have took some cute and adorable proposals from whisper made by the guys and also some proposals planned by them

Scroll down to read these proposals

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1. Totally Surprised one!!

2.Then, It’s a Magical Proposal!!

3. It’s all about Respecting her opinion

4. Proposal after Marriage also Special ❤❤

5. Awww!!!So Adorable 😍!!!

6. It will be cutest Proposal ever

7. His girl is lucky

8. Love makes a person Multilingual 😜

9. Dreamy Expectations of Every Girl

10. This is What all Girls want

What’s your dream of getting proposal or what you have planned for proposal. Share your thoughts in comments

With Love,

Girlystt

girls · women

Things Every Girl Can Relate During Pongal Celebration

Pongal is a festival celebrated as thanksgiving for harvest of the year. Diwali may be one of the greatest festival But Pongal is the festival where you celebrate 4 days Bhogi, Pongal(Makar Sankrati), Mattu Pongal and Kaanum pongal.( This is the festival, you get many holidays than Diwali)

Okay, Let’s see What are the things every girl goes through during this celebration 😜

1.Cleaning Your Home

Bhogi is the previous day of Pongal,And that day you have to clean your home throw out useless items in a fire. This way we are throwing out bad things and inviting all good things in our life.
Mostly, Cleaning work will be started before a week from Pongal. You have to help your mom and no way of escaping from it. (North Indians may clean their home during Diwali, While Most of South Indians clean their home during Pongal)

Picture from @spillthesass

This is the reality of every girls celebrating Bhogi

2. No Shopping

Most of the families will not shop dresses like diwali. It almost No shopping,While some of your parents would say “The new dress you bought and you never Wear for long days, will be your dress for pongal celebration” And This makes every girl to disappointment. ☹🙁

3.Helping your Mom with Colour Kolam is must

During Pongal,Every home’ s entrance will be seen with colourful Kolams and most of the locality announce Kolam competition on the day of Pongal. So, You have to help your Mom to draw colorful Kolam. It’s compulsory task 😆

4.Remote Fights

New movies and programs will be telecasted and all of your family members have to watch different programs and your sibling want to watch different movie… Leads to Remote fights!!

5. Pongal and Sugarcane Make your day

Your Mom’s preparation of Pongal with Jaggery (Sakkarai pongal and Venn pongal) will make your day. And Pongal celebration will not end without eating sugarcane

Happy Pongal!! Enjoy ❤ Your Holidays!

With Love,

Girlystt

relationship

Dear Boys, How to Get Into a Relationship With a Girl

This post is for Boys who want to get committed in 2019, I have been posting so far , for girls and now it’s for boys who want to be in relationship or find life partner.

Scroll down to see, what are the things you have to be doing for getting into relationship with a girl.

1. First of all, Friendship

Friendship is basic thing to enter into a relationship and love always starts with the friendship. Every girl make a boy as her friend when she likes his way of approach and who is similar to her character. So, Approach her in a decent way and if she ignores ,Just Leave and Don’t send bunch of messages continuously in order to draw her attention. She will respond to you , If she likes to respond you.

2.Understand Differences between you and her

During your days of Friendship, It is very important to know about difference between each other. Her likes and dislikes should be known to you as well as your like and dislikes should be known to her.

The one question you should ask yourself before getting into relationship is “Can you tolerate her likes and dislikes ” If Yes, you can proceed.

This is because If her likes is your dislikes, And You can’t adjust with that kind of thing, It is good to not to get into relationship with that girl. Some of them get friendzoned because of this

3.Express your Love for her

You love her and You can understand difference between her and you,as well as if you can tolerate her,Then Try to express your love for her. Send Good morning or Good night Messages everyday. Gift her favourites, Show your love as much as you can before proposing her. So that,She able to understand your affection and love towards her And Finally If You feel to spend your whole life with her, Get a bunch of roses and meet her in person and Propose in your style

4. Respect Her Decision

Some girls may like you and you may mistaken that she also on love with you.She might liked you as her friend and She is also a human , may have different kind of feeling based on her family situations.So If She says No,Respect Her decision and Try not to hurt her emotionally.True love will find a way for you.If you have shown true lover for her, Don’t worry, It comes to you in a different way.

5.Fall in Love Naturally And not Just you want to be in Relationship

Hey Boys, Don’t be in a relationship for just you want to be. Fall in love naturally

It is 100 percent true that When VTV Karthik (Vinnai Thaandi Varuvaya Movie Dialogue) says “Kaadhala nama thedi pona athu kaadhal ila, athuva nadakanum namala potu thaakanum thala keela potu thaakanum” . Meaning : It is not love, When you find someone to love, Love!!has to happen on its own accord ,It has to hit us, makes us spin topsy turvy!

Don’t find a girl for just you want to be in a relationship, It happens when you feel you want to be with her for whole life, it’s the time you want to get into relationship.

With Love,

Girlystt

Self Help · self improvement

6 Simple Rules To Achieve Your Goals in 2019

Every Year, We plan goals or new habits to follow on the start of the year.But,Most of us ( Even me) will try to follow it for a month of every New Year. The next month we get tired of following it.

Every Year we are doing the same mistake in setting up goals and achieving it. Here I break down into effective steps to Achieve goals. Let’s do this in 2019

1.Set Realistic and Minimum Goals

First of all, Set your goals according to your capacity that you can achieve in a year. And it’s important not to set too many goals.
Take a paper, Write your Top priority 3 or 4 goals (If you think you can achieve 5 or more goals you can go for it, Otherwise don’t set too much of goals and you may give up taking steps for too many goals)

2.Be Specific with Your Goal

You have to be very specific about your goals. If you want to lose weight, You have to specify how much kilos you have to lose it. Whether 5 kg or 10 kg?? Which one is possible for you. This may give you clear view to follow habits according to it
Instead of “I have to go to job”, Write it as “I want to work as HR Assistant “
Instead of ” I want to lose weight”, Write it as ” I want to lose 5 kgs of weight”
So, Write specific goals as much as possible, Add numerical values or specific characters to your goal

3. Fix the Time period

You have written Specific goals in a paper and it is essential to set time period for your goals
If your Goal is to lose weight of 5 kgs, Then you have to break down into time period that is, Fix 6 months to reduce 2 and a half kgs and other 6 months to reduce another 2 and half kgs,.
Also write down daily or weekly habits you have to take to achieve this goals
Example: For losing weight, You have to do exercise daily, Avoid junk foods
For job, You have to make a good resume, Develop your technical knowledge, so on.

4.Surround Yourself with Persons of similar Goals

Try to connect with the people of similar goals, So that you may get inspired as well as you get to know about better ways that other people are trying to achieve the similar goals like you.If you want to lose weight, you should avoid people who are eating junk foods, Because it may tempts you too
To find inspiration, Join Facebook Group
https://bit.ly/2EVl46L Share Your Goals as well as get motivated here

5.Be Consistent

Being Consistent is the key for success. Consistent is sticking to your habit and following it regularly to achieve your goal. Don’t ever give up in the journey of achieving your goal, If you cannot follow your habits due to some unavoidable reasonable, Try to follow on from next day or next week, It’s never too late to start a habit or achieving your goal.

6.Stay Positive

After Being Consistent in your habits, Believe yourself and hope for better things to happen in your life. Think positive always, It has a great power.
Whatever happens, Stay positive in your journey of achieving your goal

With Love,

Girlystt

girls · self development · women

Every Girls Should Do This 10 Things in 2019

Girlsss!! 2019 is nearing, You have a Fresh notebook to write with it, And I will give you some ideas to make your notebook colourful.

These are very simple ideas or a bucket list that every girls can do, To make your 2019 memorable and satisfactory.

1.Travel Alone

Travelling gives you more energetic mood and why don’t you travel alone. Take yourself Self Date, Enjoy the world Make new friends, You may get more contacts and people as friends when you travel different regions.
As a Indian Girl , I know it’s not that easy to travel alone to different countries or state. I recommend you to travel alone atleast for short distance. Take a bus,Go nearby Park Or beach. Buy your favorite street food ☕🍲 Travel atleast for Short Distance( If your parents are super strict or you feel shy / fear). Grab a camera too for capturing your self date memories

2.Adopt /Take Care An Animal

Adopt a pet than buying it for ten Or twenty thousand bucks. If you can’t adopt, Atleast take care of any animal may be dog, cat, bird by feeding a small cup of food or water everyday.

3. Talk with your Friend whom you haven’t talked so far

You may have talked to your college or school bestie long before, And Now you might not have touch as you are working or after getting married. Text or Call your bestie and chat with her/him

4. Start Reading Books

This is the era where TV, YouTube entertains with videos and movies. Scrolling down Facebook, Instagram Stories keeps us busy. Even some of us read books in PDF file or kindle.
Throw off all your Tablets, Mobiles, Laptops. Take a book, Grab a cup of coffee ( or a Tea), Sit in a calm place and Start reading it. Reading Books also proven to increase concentration. Finish reading atleast single book in this year.

5.Volunteer

Volunteer for any programs or Take part in any Social Activities. Helping others may give you Better feel and happiness

6. Go for a class

In this new beginning, Improve your skills or interest, If you haven’t given importance to your passion or interest or hobby, Start giving importance in this year. Take a class what you are interested in like Dance, Music, Painting, Sports or Learning New language, Whatever it may be, Start going any class that may improve yourself.

7. Spend your Time with your family

Start Spending quality time with your parents and siblings. And Girls it’s important because after you get married these moments will be memorable and as the days roll on, You will be busy and responsible for making your own family. Don’t miss this chance of spending time with your parents and siblings. Take your Mom and Dad vacation of their favourite destination. Surprise your sibling by gifting them their favourite dress or any other things.Go for a movie, have a dinner together. So girls, Spend as much as time with them you can.

8. Donate

Donate money or food or clothes or any other things to the people who can’t afford. If you haven’t donated so far,Make this year to help others with your donation.You can donate money for orphans on your birthday or anniversary Also you can sign up organ donor.Donation have to be done by every human being which also makes feel better and happy.True happiness is when you see the happiness of others

9. Cook for yourself a day

Cooking is also an art. Learn cooking, it may greatly help you when you live alone or staying out for your work. Try to learn basic cooking in this year. Cook for yourself a day and taste your cooked food.If you are already good cook, then try new dish and serve it to your family and friends, Get their feedback.

10. Love Yourself

Last but not Least, In this New Year Dont forget to Love Yourself. Do what makes you happy and Be confident with your own skin. You may be Student, Employee or mother or housewife, But dont forget to take care of yourself in terms of health as well as self improvement.

Have a Colourful 2019,

With Love,

Girlystt

Fashion · girls · women

Dress like A Celebrity in this New Year Eve: Within your Budget

Hey girlsss! We are at the end of this year and hoping to start New Beginning , New Resolutions, New Goals in 2019.To have a good start of 2019, We would be celebrating New Year Eve. In this post, I will give you Ideas to dress like these 7 looks of celebrities within budget.

I’m sure,It will be within your budget and I know that everyone can’t afford like an actress who spend 20 or 50 thousand bucks on a single dress. Let’s take a look on these celebrities dressing styles which you can follow on this New Year Celebration Eve. I have given you images that will be also available in market on few thousand bucks

1.Hot Red Skirt look of Trisha

Trisha wearing golden crop top and matched it with red skirt which makes her look combination of both traditional as well as modern.So girls, If you want this type of look, Check out this below link

INDYA Women Off White Printed Crop Top (Rs 910) https://bit.ly/2zUaGcn

INDYA Women Red Solid Flared Maxi Skirt (Rs 1917) https://bit.ly/2UU8niq

Best look for: Outing or celebration with your boyfriend/Husband, And if you planned Dating or Meet up with your crush.

2. Traditional Anarkali like Rakul Preet Singh

The embroidered Floor length blue anarkali makes us fall in love with Rakul Preet Singh. She contrastly matched with light sandal colored dupatta.

Get this look by clicking below

Light Blue Printed Kurta Dupatta Set by Janasya (Rs 1119) https://bit.ly/2QwwnJZ

Best Look For: Celebration with your family and relatives, Temple visit

3.Sam’s Dashing Black skirt with Striped Top

Sam’s Striped top and Black skirt will be perfect for the girls who loves simplicity

Best look for: Outing with Friends, Movie night out

If you prefer black long skirt, Rain and Rainbow Black Printed Maxi Flared Skirt (Rs1649) https://bit.ly/2SSuofJ

Short black skirt, People Women Brown Printed Midi Flared (Rs 471) https://bit.ly/2zXhvKc

Striped Top , STREET9 Women Brown & Black Striped Formal Shirt ( Rs 599)

https://bit.ly/2STuGTD

4.The Classic Saree Style of Shruthi

The saree will be never forgotten in every Indian occasions. Shruthi fashionably carried her look wearing striped bell sleeves blouse with checked saree. It is trendy look and all eyes will be on you definitely. Get this look by clicking below

Checked saree , Printed Georgette Saree In Light Grey (Rs 1728) https://bit.ly/2CfHWfS

Striped blouse(Rs 1410) https://amzn.to/2EvKDMt

Best Look For : Office Party with your Colleagues

5.Elegant Look of Tamannah

Tamannah’s Maroon Maxi dress with dupatta gives elegant look.You can also dress like her..For that click below

Maroon Solid Maxi Dress By JC Collection ( Rs 4232) https://bit.ly/2LixbvW

Beige & Gold Embroidered Dupatta By Dupatta Bazaar( Rs 649)

https://bit.ly/2A2PW23

Best Look For : Evening or night Party, club Party

6. Rashikhanna’s Carefree Outfit

The perfect comfortable outfit for this new year, go like Rashikhanna’s blue top and striped Palazzo.It will be comfortable throughout your day and also gives you simple look.

United Colors Of Benetton Women Blue Solid Top(Rs 2499) https://bit.ly/2zYPXEa

QUIERO Women Off White Striped Flared Palazzo (Rs 833) https://bit.ly/2QvyKwk

Best Look For: Staying comfortable all the day

7. Nayan in Cute Checked Dress

Nayanthara’s Checked dress makes her cute,adorable like a school going girl.Strike a pose like Nayan by Clicking below
Miss Chase Women Navy Blue Checked Fit and Flare Top (Rs 1119)

https://bit.ly/2zXgXE8

20Dresses Women Black Solid Belt ( Rs 711) https://bit.ly/2rFcgKF

(Note: If link is not available, Search it with given name)

The First and foremost in Dressing is that you should feel comfortable and confident.

Know yourself whether you want to look simple or grand,Select your favorite style and Go Fashionable in 2019

Enjoy, Happy 2019

With Love,

Girlystt

girls · relationship · women

15 Heart Melting Texts You can send on His Birthday

Hi gals, This is the last month of this year,So I decided to collect some sweet text messages around the internet that you can wish on your boyfriend’s/ husband’s birthday on forthcoming year.

These messages will melt his heart 💜❤ on his special day and he would know how much you love him. Don’t forget to bookmark this page☺

1.A birthday wish flies🎈 from the bottom of ❤my heart, Because only deep inside all great wishes start!Happy Birthday🎁🎉 Darling!!

2.On the lovely occasion of your birthday🎂, I just want to remind you that I deeply, truly, madly am in love💜❤💚 with you. Let’s make the most of your big day today

3.I wish that your shoulder I rest my head upon is always mine. I wish your hand that supports me is mine. I wish the ears that listen to me when I talk is mine. I just want to be there for you always and forever. Happy Birthday to you, my man👫

4.No words could ever describe my love❤ for you. It’s larger than the universe🌎 and it’s deeper than the🌊 ocean. Happy Birthday🍰🎊, 💕Dear!

5.Sending you a sweet Birthday 💌wish wrapped with all my love! Every girl💏 dreams of having a Boyfriend like you!

6.Happy Birthday,💏 baby. I promise to make your day as special 🎂as you are to me, and I promise to make your year🎊🎈 even more special!

7.Hey Birthday boy👫, when will I get to give you your birthday kiss💋?

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8.Do you believe in miracles❄? I sure do, Because I found you👫! Happy Birthday 🎂to the best Boyfriend in the whole wide 🌏world!

9.On your birthday🍰🍰 let’s celebrate our past👫, our today 🎊and our future👨‍👩‍👦‍👦! I love my life ❤with you!

10.Blow your candles🕯,Make a wish✨, And I will give you Sweet big kiss💋💋!

11. Falling in love with you 💏is the only fall 💃I have ever enjoyed. Happy birthday 🎊my love❤.

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12.Happy birthday to the guy 👫whose hugs are like a warm blanket🛌 on a chilly morning and kisses 💋are like a cool breeze🌫 on a summer☀ night.

13.Here’s a hot birthday ⚡💋❤💌wish for a boyfriend who is just too hot🔥 to handle. Happy birthday hottie🎊🎂.

14.There is nothing I want more than to spend 👫💏👨‍👩‍👦‍👦next one hundred birthdays🎂🍰 of yours by my side. I love you Sweet 💜❤heart. Happy Birthday dear🎊🎀🎉

15.Happy Birthday🎀🎉 to the Man 👫💏who I wish to hold forever in my ❤heart

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These are texts are collected from various source. Some Tips to make your Text super special

  1. Add Cute emojis as much as you can
  2. You can add these Text with your memorable photos
  3. Send it to your loved ones at perfect timing ( like 12 A.M, When he is happy)

With Love,

Girlystt

girls · relationship · women

10 Confessions of Boys What they secretly love about their Girlfriends

Even boys love small things (we) girls will do. YA! gals, Here  are 10 confessions of boys what they secretly love about their girlfriends. These confessions give us how they love their girlfriend to the core. Scroll down to read the confessions

1.Cute…Isn’t it??

2.HAHAHA!!

3.Is it??? 😲😲😲😲

4.Adorable!!!!!

5.Cuddling love❤😁

6.Every girl need a boyfriend like this😍

7.Romantic one 😜😄

8. ohhhhhh!! Even boys love the same

9.Then you know how important you are in her life😊💑

10. your GF is lucky😇

credits:Whisper

Hey girls, Come on!! Immediately  ask  your boyfriend what he loves about you secretly and know how special you are to him. He may confess his love on strange things you do . Comment your boyfriend’s confession or if you are a boy , confess about secret things you love about your girlfriend.

With Love,

Girlystt

girls · Indian brides · Indian wedding · women

20 Amazing Photo Ideas with your Better Half On your Wedding: Must have on your Wedding Album

My Dear Gals!! Here is another post for this Wedding Season. Brides!! Get Ready for these photo ideas and make your partner also get ready for this by sharing it .(Don’t forget to bookmark this page). These photo ideas may give you memorable moments on your wedding day

1.A Forehead Kiss

Kissing on Forehead gives a girl best feeling,It makes a girl to feel that she is everything to him.When your partner kisses you on your forehead ,capture that sweetest moment on your Big Day.

2. Looking Eye to Eye

You may have great feeling when you look at his eyes that ‘Everything is you in his life’, and He feels the same that ‘he is everything for you in your life’ looking at your eyes.

3. Blushing smile of the bride

Ask your photographer to click a picture when you blush ,looking at him.It will be definitely cutest photo in your wedding album

4.When He plays with your hair

Boys love to play with his girl’s hair.If your partner also do that ,why can’t you take a photo like this?!

5. Pinching your cheeks

6. A Care-Free Pose with Sunglasses

7.The Proposal

A proposal from your partner on wedding will be cherishing moment that you may experience later in your life.

8.”Finally We made it” Look

The moment,When he is looking at your Mangalsutra (Thaali) and feels that “you are mine”. You can very well see the bride’s eyes saying “I’m Yours” to her partner. Don’t forget to capture this beautiful picture. You can also ask your photographer to click groom’s reaction as well.

9. A Back Hug

10. When HE lifts you up

11. A Walk on your Wedding outfit

Once a while you may wear your wedding outfit, So don’t miss to walk together on it and click a picture.

12. When you give him sweetest torture

Add a fun picture to your wedding album by giving any naughty pose, portraying you are his sweetest torture.

13. Having Random conversation

Have a real conversation with your partner and don’t do it just for candid pictures. And when your photographer captures it, It will be beautiful one.

14. When HE carries you

15. The Rear view

Most of them forget to take photo of their rear view. Girls!!The rear view picture will be the most romantic one .So ,don’t miss this to add it on your album.

16. The Running pose

“Let’s elope away” pose (below picture) is adorable and this pose will be perfect for love marriage couples (You might have planned before your marriage lol:P)

The bride running while groom tries to catch her with garland in his hand. It will be perfect pose for arrange marriage couples(It makes fun way to know each other)

17. Lying on his shoulders/chest

18. Taking Selfie

SELFIE! Nowadays wherever we go ,we take selfies and why not on your wedding too. Take a selfie which will be your most memorable picture and also capture the moment you take selfie together

19.Hands Together

Your hand full of mehendi and his hand will make perfect combination on your big day, So ask your photographer to focus on your hands together

20. A pose for Black&White picture

A Black and White picture gives you flashback effect while seeing your album on later years. (So keep it in your list too)

Finally, Whatever the pose is, Try to give real pose with love for your partner and don’t make it only for photograph.Reality gives you beautiful picture. Also decide what are the photos you like to have on your wedding album and convey to your photographer.

Have a Happy Wedding!! with beautiful memories

With Love,

Girlystt

girls · Indian brides · Indian wedding · women

15 Floral hairstyles of Indian brides which were Out of Ordinary ( Cute as well as Weird)

Hi gals, It is Wedding season..In South India (especially Tamilians) fix up their wedding dates in month of January and February( In tamil -Thai Maatham) as it considered to be auspicious month for wedding.So, I decided to post related to wedding of South Indian brides who differently chose the floral hairstyle for jada (Braid)

To – be – Brides, Don’t worry I’m here to guide by giving different ideas related to wedding in my future posts. Instagram https://instagram.com/girlystt(@girlystt_) and Facebookhttps://m.facebook.com/Girlyst-2039043456111464/ (girlyst).And I am excited to announce that every sunday , I will be posting for you on new topics (FOLLOW ME :P)

Okay, Let’s come to the topic, I had collected the pictures of brides,who had tried their floral hairstyle for wedding which was out of ordinary. Some was cute as well as weird.

1.The lovely heart❤

This bride tried heart floral hairstyle for her braid.The combination of white floral and red rose petals made the look better.The braid starting with central little red rose would have captured her hubby’s 💜❤heart.

This heart also look better but would get more attention as it was red floral is dominating than White floral.

2. The contrast colored flowers

Most of the bride opt flowers matching her saree or blouse. But this bride gone with different sky blue color of flower decors contrasting her outfit color. It looks cute.. Isn’t it??

3.The balloon braid (Best option for Engagement)

It is common that brides choosing the traditional normal braid on wedding.This bride goes with balloon braid with simple flower decor.

4. The Twisted braid (Best for Engagement)

Same as Balloon braid, The bride opted twisted braid with minimum hair accessories.

5. The golden hair accessory (Best option for Wedding)

This bride opted 22 carat gold hair accessory for her wedding with lovely jasmine flowers. It looks dazzling ( covering hair accessory also available like this ,if you don’t want to go gold)

6.The beads

Small beads all over the braid makes this bride pretty 🙂

7.Designing of Beads

Weird or cute 🤔?

8.The coloured stitches

9. One piece Hair Accessory for long braid

10.Flowers tied along the sides of the braid

11. Flowers wrapped around braid

12. Braid full of roses

Usually brides opt jasmine flowers and hair decorative accessories. This bride opted roses matching her saree that covers the full braid and also added hair accessories to it.

13. Fish Pattern

14. The Peacock Style

15. Peacock feathers as Hair decor

Hope you would have seen different varieties of floral hairstyle which was out of normal and traditional hairstyle decors.If you think some of the floral hairstyles are cute, comment it below 🙂

With Love,

Girlystt